Monthly Archives: May 2021

Am I Too Picky?



I just can’t seem to find the right man; every woman I meet is ……..; there are no good men left.  Do these and similar statements seem familiar to you? If so, the problem may not be with the universe but with you.  Alvean and Doug discuss the ways we may be sabotaging our dating life, creating unreasonable expectations , seeking impossible perfection, or revealing our own insecurities.  Relationships may look easy from the outside or in the first blush of affection and chemistry but they take effort to succeed over the long term.  Find out more about how you score in the relationship game.  A full transcript of this episode can be found here: LL07


The Best Way To Say Goodbye



Let’s face it, breaking up, as the song says, is hard to do.  Unless you are callous or exiting a toxic relationship no one wants to consciously hurt another person.  There are ways to help a former lover to gain appropriate closure and free them and yourself to move on.  It still hurts, but these approaches which Alvean and Doug discuss are not only the right way they are the kind way to help you both through a difficult passage.  For more and a complete transcript, click here:LL06


God’s Dating Service



Is there such a thing as a soulmate?  Are we destined to find our true love, a match made literally in heaven? Alvean and Doug explore these beliefs and the truths behind real and lasting relationships.  You’ll be surprised.  Learn about couples who have life long commitment, who pass from this life within minutes of one another, who seem to defy the odds against life long happiness.  How do they do it?  This and more in this episode.  For a full transcript, please click here: LL05