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We read about May/December relationships where one person is considerably older than another.  And we also hear about relationships between those who seem very young or very old.  Does age really matter or can two people find love and sustainability regardless of these distinctions?  Alvean discuss age and its bearing on successful relationships in this episode, for which a copy of the transcript can be found here: LL48-Does Age Matter?

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Alvean and Doug talk about strategies for negotiating with your mate.  How do you get what you want without forcing your partner to give up what is important to them?  How do you create win win solutions in difficult circumstances?  These and other questions make for an intriguing episode.  For a complete transcript, click here:LL47-Getting What You Want

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Alvean and Doug discuss the challenges that can occur when family or friends are invited or insinuate themselves into a relationship.  They may have every good intention but there are pitfalls to non-professional counseling that can often exacerbate underlying issues or even create them where they do not currently exist.  For a full transcript of this episode, click here: LL46-Friends and Family as Counselors

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You find each other, fall in love and the chemistry and positive feelings pull you along what seems a never ending and positive current.  Then you hit a snag–one or the other of you suddenly signals the need for change.  Maybe it is some habit or personality quirk–maybe something more serious but the struggle for control and the daily wearing down of complaints or unhappiness become a weight that threatens to sink your relationship.  It doesn’t have to be this way–but you cannot solve it by ignoring the problem.  Learning to listen to each other without judgment, to find ways to meet each others needs and to set priorities that respect health compromise is the art of relationships.  Living together is easy in the short run–harder over time and finding the way to grow closer rather than further apart is the key to a healthy and happy relationship.  Alvean and Doug offer strategies for coping with dissatisfaction–learning to love your partner just as they are.  For a copy of the full transcript of this episode, click here:  LL45-I love you Just the Way You Are

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It happens to most of us, we become absorbed in the daily business of living and one day we look up from our tasks and routines and ask ourselves what we are doing–what our lives are really all about.  It may come in your later years–or even in your younger ones but that question is one we are likely to be presented with sooner or later.  Maybe your purpose is family, your work, your faith, or something else entirely, but finding the one thing that gives you the energy and strength to persevere and to relish your days is a gift we all need to receive.  Alvean and Doug talk about how to begin the process–to find and embrace your purpose in life.  You can find a full transcript of this episode here: LL44-Finding Purpose