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For many people, social media is where they play out their relationship dynamics.  It is not usually a healthy outlet for what should remain a private and personal expression of feelings.  Alvaen and Doug discuss the dangers and pitfalls of social media and how it can be come a corrosive element–the third party in a relationship of two.  For a complete transcript of this episode, click here: 64-Relationships and Social Media

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They may be parent’s, family, friends or even people we don’t know personally, but choose them as role models in our lives.  Discovering who your models are, why you chose them and how they can affect your relationships for better or worse is the subject of this episode.  For a full transcript, click here:LL02

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It’s a big step and one that is fraught with tests of your relationship.  Habits that may be endearing in small does can become irritating when they occur all the time–differences in needs and desires–ranging from simple things like personal habits, the need for entertainment or solitude, even what you want to eat or when to go to sleep can become points of contention.  Alvean and Doug talk about the considerations one should have in making the move to love and live together.  For more about this and a full transcript, click here:63-Moving In Together

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How we show our love has everything to do with the love languages we speak.  For some, the giving of gifts or time is their way of expressing love.  For others it is romantic gestures or physical closeness.  Learn what you love language is and how you and your partner can learn to recognize each other’s expressions of love even and especially when they may not be the same. For more information and a complete transcript of this episode, click here: 66-The Love Languages

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We are told that we’ll know our ideal mate when we first meet them, but that is as often as not really what happens.  The deep bonds and lasting commitment between two people takes time and nurture to reach fulfillment .  The thunderclap of instant love is too often a chemical or romantic impulse .  How do you learn to tell the difference and more important, how can you learn to recognize those individuals that have the capacity to love and be loved fully?  Answers to these and other questions can be found in this episode.  For more, and a full transcript, click here: LL62-Your ideal mate