Monthly Archives: July 2019

Staying Positive



Every day we are subjected to negativity; in the news in the lives of those around us, perhaps in our own lives.  How to you remain calm and serene in the face of that bombardment?  Is there a secret to remaining positive? Alvean & Doug talk about their approach to a saner life, free from the negative spiral.  For a complete transcript, click here: LL38-Staying Positive in a Negative World


The Love Languages



Alvean and Doug describe the five love languages and talk about how to lean what your languages are as well as those of your partner.  Learning to use the right language(s) can make all the difference in how you feel loved and how you make your partner feel.  For a complete transcript of this episode, click here:66-The Love Languages


Why we flirt



The birds do it, the bees do it, even men and women do it–or so goes the song.  Why do we flirt, and is it always with the intention of entering into a relationship?  Alvean and Doug talk about the fundamental urge in us that can lead to misread signals or to a lasting relationship.  For a transcript of this episode click here:LL31-Why Men and Women Flirt


Getting What You Want



We all want what we want.  But getting it can be hard–sometimes even destroying the very thing we hope for.  Alvean and Doug talk about how to get what you want while meeting the needs of those you care for.  It isn’t as hard as you think.  For  full transcript of this episode click here:LL47-Getting What You Want


Jealousy



Alvean and Doug talk about the green monster, jealousy.  Nothing can unravel a relationship faster than the fear, suspicion and negative behavior that accompanies this sad emotion, and yet some of us find ourselves powerless when overtaken by its dark shadow.  How can you avoid turning towards the dark side?  For answers to this and other questions  listen to this episode and find a transcript here: LL22-Jealousy